Bee CALM • Phone tool
Cupcake Candle Breathing
Slow breath in. Blow out the candle slowly. Repeat until your body feels a little calmer.
Use this when you see:
- Big feelings
- Anxious body
- Fast breathing
- Waiting stress
- Parent stress
- Before trying again
Say this first
“Let’s take a slow breath in, then blow out the candle together.”
Slow breath in
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Slow breath in
Ready
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Parent script: “Slow breath in with me. Now blow out the candle slowly.”
Slow breath in is 3 seconds. Blow out the candle is 5 seconds. The video plays during the blow out breath.
No materials needed. Try it in the car, store, park, therapy waiting room, or before the next direction.

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