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Bee PALS • Free Foundation 02

What Is a Social Cue?

A social cue is a piece of information that can help me understand what may be happening in an interaction.

Regulate See Try Do Reflect

Before you start

How are you using Bee PALS today?

10 to 15 minutes Stop anytime. One useful part is enough for today.

The big idea

A clue is information. It is not proof.

A person looking at the door might want to leave. They might also be checking the time, looking for someone, noticing a sound, or thinking about something else.

1 NOTICE

What can I actually observe?

2 GUESS GENTLY

What might it mean?

3 CHECK

Do I need more information?

Regulate

Make room to notice.

Social information can be harder to notice when my brain is handling too much. I can support access first.

Too much input

I may miss clues because my brain is already busy.

Add support

Less noise, more time, movement, a break, or clearer words.

More access

I may have more room to notice useful information.

REGULATE I do not have to look calm. I need enough access to notice.

See

Six places clues can come from.

I do not have to use every clue. I can start with the information that is easiest for me to access.

Tap a clue type above.

You will see what that kind of clue can tell you and what it cannot tell you.

Clue or guess?

OBSERVATION “They looked at the door three times.”

This describes something I could observe.

GUESS “They are bored with me.”

This is one possible interpretation, not a fact.

CHECK “Do you need to go soon?”

This can give me clearer information.

SEE Clues help me build a possibility, not read someone’s mind.

Try

Cue Detective

Look at the whole scene. Tap the clue buttons under it. You do not need to find every clue.

What information is available?

Tap any clues you notice.

Start with any clue you can access.
1 Notice

It is almost closing time.

2 Add

They say they need to head out soon.

3 Add

Their backpack is on and body is angled toward the exit.

4 Respond or check

“Okay. Want to finish this another day?”

Notice what we did NOT use:

We did not need eye contact. We did not need to identify an emotion. The situation, words, and body direction already gave useful information.

TRY I can choose the clues that are useful instead of decoding everything.

Watch real examples

See social information in motion.

These links go to established university and professional resources. Use videos to notice context, words, movement, timing, and boundaries — not to copy one “correct” way of looking or moving.

Bee PALS note: External resources use their own terminology and teaching models. Bee PALS does not require eye contact, stillness, masking, or imitation of a single communication style.

Do

Find one clue in real life.

Your mission

Notice one social cue during one interaction.

You do not need to interpret it perfectly. Just name what kind of information you noticed.

DO Success is noticing one useful piece of information.

Reflect

Which clues work best for me?

There is no requirement to be equally good at every kind of clue.

Situation
Words
Voice
Face
Body
Space
Want to write something down? Optional
Foundation 02 complete

Next you will learn how the situation itself can be a clue.

REFLECT I can use my strongest clues and ask when I need more information.

Future Bee PALS experience

Social Cue Lab

Eventually this lesson can become a simulated environment where a learner talks with an AI character, notices clues, asks questions, and sees how the interaction changes.

Cafeteria Game night Classroom Group chat Store Friend hangout
Social Cue Lab PREVIEW
“I can stay for one more game.”
Game café • 5:40 PM
How the future AI practice could work

1. Pick an environment. The learner chooses a realistic setting instead of taking a generic quiz.

2. Interact naturally. The AI character talks, pauses, moves, changes plans, or communicates a boundary.

3. Notice clues. The learner can highlight situation, words, voice, face, body, or space.

4. Ask instead of guessing. Clarifying questions change what the bot reveals.

5. Multiple reasonable paths. The system explains consequences and context instead of grading one scripted response.

6. Adjust access. Noise, pace, text, captions, visual complexity, processing time, and communication mode can be changed.

For support people Parent, caregiver, teacher, or therapist coaching

Teach observation before interpretation.

Ask “What did you notice?” before asking “What do you think they felt?” This reduces pressure to mind read and makes the reasoning process visible.

Regulate

Reduce barriers before asking the learner to process social information.

See

Describe concrete information: words, movement, context, changes, distance.

Try

Generate two or three possible meanings instead of one correct interpretation.

Do

Practice in a natural interaction, video, photo, show, or game.

Reflect

Identify which kinds of clues are easiest and which supports improve access.

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